Trying to hide from others, or is the core of this fear related partially to the missing self-value that you may and can exist? And the lack of quality within a surrounding.

She is trying to become stone again, she feels the unwanted energy.
Not knowing how to move to please others over and over again.
If such an act continues, it becomes overkill.

In the end, it means that you do not feel free enough to be yourself, nor to give yourself the space to develop what you really need.